Musings of Exas...

Thursday, April 20, 2006

BE A TRUE LOVER....

i was jus thinking of new post, suddenly a muse passed and as a result here is my scribblings...


LOVE, LOVE, LOVE.... now straight into business.... i cant able to tolerate to see certain people ( i mean some people...) by seeing a gal/boy loses their heart and simply says he/she is in love...

one incident, my friend not to mention him, just one month into college life and his attitudes became freaky towards a gal.. and everyday he blabbers like anything with me about that gal... and oneday he lost his word," i can leave my parents for that gal!!!!"

i was jerked and said," Hey man, r u crazy??? for a gal ur leaving ur parents, this is stupid stuff da..." He didnt here me anymore and left....

He proposed to that gal and as usual she rejected.... he is not true lover... NOW, HE IS SEARCHING FOR ANOTHER... i know he is not a listener to anyone... so left advising him..


so wats my point is the word " I LOVE U" is misused... love is a beautiful thing which u can experience, its different, a blissful state...feeling the unfelt... its like that, cant explain in words because of its infinity!!!

what iam asking everyone is, be true to ur lover... or otherwise dont love... because,i have seen so many of guys like the above said...


i have not experienced it... iam not waiting for that too...
i have my own siddantas (frames..) lemme stick to this word...


sorry if anyone's sentiments were hurted...


love u all...




20 Comments:

  • good post...

    Love is not something to be played with...it's a very serious emotion...

    I have loved very truly and lost very graciously too :) But Im fine...atleast I loved and he didnt...

    Keshi.

    By Blogger Keshi, at 9:47 PM  

  • too gud an article dude..truly said.man...maan liya..sure..it takes me somedays to comeout of ur words...the essence of it is taht u have to know waht u r talking...
    thanx for dropping by my blog...

    By Blogger ravi shankar, at 2:56 PM  

  • => keshi...

    something unusual...

    anyways, iam happy ur a true one!!!

    By Blogger exasparater, at 8:49 AM  

  • => ravi shanky...

    sorry maaan!!!

    i think ur hurted by words.... really sorry!!!

    By Blogger exasparater, at 8:50 AM  

  • Love is love ... you don't have to define it ... the momentary "love" of ur friend is known as infatuation or maybe even lust ...

    I have had my little share of true love already ... it wasnt just a school girl crush ... but it actually was true love ... from both the sides ... but there are times when you can't always have what you want ... so am fine and living with it ....

    and now ... waiting for someone to love me more than he did ... but havent been able to find anyone as yet.


    very nice post mate :)

    By Blogger Łóòň Ġãĺ, at 9:52 AM  

  • => cheezeeeeeeeee

    search in the gooogleee!!!






    kidding :) tnx for dropping here!!

    By Blogger exasparater, at 10:23 AM  

  • => keshi....

    i dont wat to say!!! some men are like tat!!!

    wait!! there will be one born for u!!!

    By Blogger exasparater, at 8:56 AM  

  • well written, dude.....
    actually love is just a overhyped concept... all this talk of love at first sight is crap....

    By Blogger abhimir, at 9:30 AM  

  • =>abhimir...

    welcome to exasperating world!!!!


    yeah!! ur view is correct dude!!!

    By Blogger exasparater, at 8:49 AM  

  • good job.......
    it was high time somebody wrote something like this ,..

    love is a serious matter. with serious repercussions that will take aour life forward....

    cya
    Ash

    By Blogger PNA, at 11:01 PM  

  • love, is a loaded statement. period.

    By Blogger ±, at 2:54 AM  

  • => ash

    tnx for dropping here

    By Blogger exasparater, at 9:40 AM  

  • =>kapur..

    nice statement!!!

    By Blogger exasparater, at 9:43 AM  

  • love...
    the one word im beginnin to get scared of...

    By Blogger Michelle, at 10:02 AM  

  • => michelle!!!

    :)

    By Blogger exasparater, at 9:02 AM  

  • =>keshi

    u gonna live for urself!!

    dont worry wat the world says...

    By Blogger exasparater, at 11:17 PM  

  • Who are you to judge your friend? He was true to his love however fleeting and could do anything for it. And if his love for that girl ran more than his love for his parents, so what? He is being true to himself. That his love was fleeting is another story but at least he was true to the moment.

    And you say "be true to your lover"?? All you need is to be true to yourself and everything falls into place. You don't have to be true to anyone else in life.

    And when a person experiences true love, there is no room for anything else. It is bliss, I agree on that. It is an experience..but till then everyone flits through relationships and stages.

    By Blogger White Magpie, at 4:10 AM  

  • => white...

    actually, he is searching for another gal!!! then how can be a true lover??? what ur thinking abt love??? u cannot shift love instantly na!! IS IT A FISH MARKET TO REPLACE THE BOUGHT ONE!!!!


    sorry buddy, if ur hurted!!!

    tnx for dropping by :)

    By Blogger exasparater, at 10:20 AM  

  • EXASP those last 2 comments as Keshi were not by me...they were by that loser clone...

    Keshi.

    By Blogger Keshi, at 10:05 PM  

  • Now..thats like true.
    Its one...overly done...subject.
    Love is not a bed of roses..and neither is it a bedsheet to replace...!

    Kewl..!

    By Blogger The Mocking Spirit, at 9:52 PM  

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